so, whatcha doin'?
I have a friend who asks this every time he calls me.
I am sure that he wouldn't always want to know the true answer to that.
That leads me to realize that I need to be careful about asking questions.
I need to be thinking:
why am I asking this question?
is this a question of habit?
what do I want to know?
am I willing to invest time in listening?
do I want an honest answer?
I am thinking that
if I can't answer these questions
before asking my question
perhaps I shouldn't ask it.
I am sure that he wouldn't always want to know the true answer to that.
That leads me to realize that I need to be careful about asking questions.
I need to be thinking:
why am I asking this question?
is this a question of habit?
what do I want to know?
am I willing to invest time in listening?
do I want an honest answer?
I am thinking that
if I can't answer these questions
before asking my question
perhaps I shouldn't ask it.
wow ironically I am a huge texter bc since Sabastian died I cant stand to talk on the phone and my most used expression is whatcha doin lol i never thought about it at all but hmm i do believe that sometimes i just ask out of habit it so much easier but at least w txt messaging pay attention is a lot easier than face to face or the lack of paying attention.lol
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